Breast cancer victim shares first inspiring breastfeeding selfie following chemotherapy

“Today my son and I overcame a huge obstacle in my breast cancer journey,” the brave mum explained on Facebook

Breast cancer victim shares first inspiring breastfeeding selfie following chemotherapy

by Kayleigh Dray |
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Valerie Molstre took to Facebook to share a beautiful photograph of herself breastfeeding her four-month-old son for the first time.

The doting mum was diagnosed with a very aggressive type of breast cancer when she was just 28 weeks pregnant, and was forced to undergo five cycles of chemotherapy while she was pregnant.

Now she has a very important message to any other mums going through the same thing.

She wrote powerfully:

*Today my son and I overcame a huge obstacle in my breast cancer journey. Today he breastfed for the first time after chemotherapy. *

*I was diagnosed with breast cancer at 28 weeks pregnant. My cancer was stage 2, grade 3, and triple negative (very aggressive). So, the doctors decided to start chemotherapy while I was pregnant. *

*After 5 cycles of chemo, I gave birth to a healthy baby boy. I was told I couldn't breastfeed for weeks after chemo, so I was not allowed to feed him when he was born, and at first I was even told I wouldn't be able to pump. *

The lactation consultant at the hospital wouldn't even come in to see me.

*I kept asking questions and found a lactation consultant who was willing to do the research on my chemo meds, and find out how long it would take for each med to leave my milk. *

Via Facebook
Via Facebook

We later learned that I could breastfeed 10 days after a dose of chemotherapy. I also found out it was safe to pump.

*So, for 2 1/2 months I pumped and dumped to keep my milk supply, then when I started a chemotherapy with doses every other week instead of weekly, I got to breastfeed 4 days each cycle. *

*Now, finally, after 4 months of pumping 6 times a day, I am able to breastfeed my son. We still face challenges. Radiation will likely dry up my milk on the affected side, but I feel victorious today. *

This was like taking the power over my body back. I'm the one in control of this one thing. This is something only I can do for my child, and if something happens to me, this is protection and health I can give him that will last the rest of his life.

Today my son and I overcame a huge obstacle in my breast cancer journey. Today he breastfed for the first time after... > >

Posted by [Valarie Molstre](https://www.facebook.com/valarie.molstre) on [Monday, 15 June 2015](https://en-gb.facebook.com/valarie.molstre/posts/450092668498269:0)

*Please share my story. I wasn't able to find any information on breastfeeding with chemotherapy on-line. *

While every situation is different, I hope this will find some women who have been told they can't breastfeed, and encourage them to keep looking for answers. Find an expert, and if you have the will, you will find a way.

Unsurprisingly, the inspiring post has gone viral - and has been shared over 13,000 times on Facebook.

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